You may be quick to be excited for your bro when they seem to be “scoring” with potential sexual partners, but it’s also your duty as a friend to make sure they are being safe in their potentially risky behaviors.
Talking about sex in a mature way can be awkward, but it doesn’t have to be with these easy conversation starters.
1. “Hey dude, when I went to borrow a condom from your room the other night, I noticed they were all expired, dried out, torn, and completely defective. Would you like to go to the local drug store with me to purchase some new ones?”
2. “I noticed you and Natalie are getting pretty serious. Have you guys had a conversation about whether you’re still seeing other people to make sure you’re on the same page?”
3. “Hey brother, I’m all for enjoying great sensations, but wearing a condom is second-to-none for the relieved feeling of being free from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. Would you like to practice applying one now to a banana?”
4. “For real though, is Natalie seeing other people? Did she say anything when I let her in the other day?”
5. “Sex is pretty gnarly, but that’s not always the case. It’s important to check in with your partner to see if they’re comfortable, and really listen when they show discomfort with something.”
6. “You’re a good friend and I cherish our friendship. By the way, Natalie and I are casually seeing each other now. The good news is, I don’t think you need to get those new condoms for a little while.”